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英語美文讓自己成為有魅力的人
We can't articulate it,but we know a charming person when we seeone. It's that person at the party who seems to know everybody. He works thecrowd with such ease and has a positive aura about him, and everybody justseems drawn to him like steel to a magnet. He leaves people thinking “What a great guy!” and seems to have it all together.
雖無法言傳，但我們能一眼看出魅力十足的人：他在聚會上似乎萬人熟;他在人群中游刃有余，頂著光環(huán)，眾人像鐵之于磁石那樣地被他吸引;他讓人們覺得“多棒的家伙!”;似乎他擁有這一切特質(zhì)。
I would be a fool if I wrote an article on how to be charming if Iwasn't charming to begin with. I don't mean to say I'm the most charming man onthe face of the earth, but I do have my moments. I've reflected back on thosemoments, studied other charismatic people, read books on the subject, and askedother charismatic people to share their insights on this elusive trait. Youknow what I learned? Charisma is not genetic. It can be learned. On to the 8tips.
要是我沒有魅力卻寫一篇關(guān)于如何變得富有魅力的文章，這豈不荒唐!我并不是說我是世界上最有魅力的男人，但我確有魅力四射的時候。我回味那些時刻，研究其他富有魅力的人，讀這方面的書籍，向其他擁有魅力的人請教。你知道我學到了什么嗎?魅力不是天生的，而是可以學會的。這里有八個竅門。
1. Get your own life in order first.
先將生活納入正規(guī)
When everything is going right in your life, the world is youroyster. You're in the zone, you're on top of the world, you feel invincible,like everything has fallen into place just for you. You don't have a singleworry in the world and you feel like singing and dancing in the rain. With thiskind of mental state, it's a double edged sword. It can lead you to become themost charismatic person in the world, or the most obnoxious and boastful personin the world (more on how to not be the latter later onin this article)。
如果你的生活事事如意，你就可以隨心所欲、盡得其樂。你得其所哉，你站在世界之巔，你無可匹敵，仿佛所有花兒都為你開放。在世間你沒有一絲煩惱，你想要在雨中縱歌起舞。這種境界是把雙刃劍，它能使你成為世上最有魅力的人，也能把你變成人間最無聊自負的人(后文將著重探討如何避免這第二種情形)
You cannot fake charisma if you have problems going on in your life,whether it's trouble paying the bills, family issues, relationship problems,etc. That stuff will weigh you down.
如果你的生活存在問題，你就無法裝出擁有魅力的樣子——無論你是無法付賬，還是家庭瑣事，或是關(guān)系問題等等，這些都會壓得你挺不起腰。
Get your life in order. Pay the bills, save some money in the bank,forgive other people, don't hold grudges, be courteous to all, resolve anyissues you have with people, have a passion in life, have a dream you'reworking on, eat right, exercise, etc. You will find that getting your acttogether will make it extremely easy for you to be charismatic, because thenyou can do the other half of what charismatic people do, and that is focus onthe other person.
讓你生活走向正軌。付清賬單、把錢存進銀行、原諒他人、勿懷嫉妒、對所有人都彬彬有禮、解決掉人際關(guān)系中的所有問題、擁有生活的激情、擁有夢想并去追求、合理飲食、鍛煉體魄等等。你會發(fā)現(xiàn)當你身體力行這些之后，擁有魅力真是小菜一碟，因為接下來你能去做其他有魅力的人所做的另一半事情——那就是關(guān)注他人。
2. Exercise
運動
Exercise before attending any event or gathering (and please shower afterwards :) )。 It'llgive you the energy you need to emanate your glowing charm throughout the room.It'll get you in the right mindset of a being a happy positive person becauseof the endorphins circulating in your body. It'll give you that confidence tostart socializing. You'll be on your game. Everything will flow just rightbecause you feel like a million bucks.
參加任何活動或聚會前，先運動一下(然后請洗下澡：))。這會賜予你所需的能量，讓你魅力四射。這也將讓你處于快樂積極的精神狀態(tài)中，因為內(nèi)啡肽正在你的體內(nèi)徘徊。這還會給你自信去開始社交活動。你將會發(fā)揮良好，諸事順利，因為你感覺你像個大款。
3. Wear the clothes
著裝
You know what clothes I'm talking about. Everybody's got an outfitthat makes them feel like a million bucks. We all know that clothes make youfeel good. If you feel good, it'll be really easy to make others feel good. Andthe less worried you are about your appearance, the more you can focus on theother person. The more content you are with yourself (akaself confident)， the more easier it will be to turn onthe charm.
你知道我要說的是什么樣的衣服。人人都擁有一套服裝，穿上去覺得自己就像大款。我們都知衣飾能讓你自我感覺良好。如果你自我感覺良好，那就容易讓他人感覺良好。而且你對自己外形的擔憂越少，就越能把注意力放在別人身上。你對你自己越滿意(亦稱自信)，就越容易施展魅力。
4. Pre-socialize
預交際
I don't know why it is, but if I have socialized prior to attendinga gathering or event, I find it way easier to turn on the charm. What I mean bypre-socializing is just striking up conversations with any person you meet onthe way to the event; the store clerk, the people on the elevator, the securityguard, etc. Just some light conversation. Nothing heavy. How are you? Busy daytoday eh? I like your jacket. Do you mind me asking where you got it? I thinkpre-socializing gets you into the groove of easily being able to talk to anyperson, one of the key skills in becoming charming.
我不知道為什么要這樣，但如果我在參加聚會或活動之前先交際一下，我就能更容易地找到辦法來施展魅力。我說預交際的意思就是在你去參加活動的途中先隨便找個什么人交談一下，如店員、電梯里的人、保安等等。就只是一些輕松的對話。不要是沉重話題。你怎么樣?今天很忙，是嗎?我喜歡你的外套。可以問一下你在哪兒買的嗎?我認為預交際讓你處于一種可以和任何人交談的最佳狀態(tài)，這是展現(xiàn)魅力的不二法門之一。
When you get to the event
當你到達某次活動時
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