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英語美文——新年的希望與祈禱
基本上是新年前夜，無論是想變得更好還是更糟，你打算參加周三晚上的單身倒計(jì)時(shí)晚會(huì)。你是孤單的，再一次。你因此而哭泣，還是順其自然吧，但是現(xiàn)在你準(zhǔn)備好成為另一個(gè)人想成為的人。
明年如果你想會(huì)轉(zhuǎn)事情，這里有需要下的8條新年決心。
1. “I will meet more people”
“我要遇見更多的人”
Unless you marry the McDelivery guy, Prince Charming isn’t going to appear on
your doorstep. Well, maybe he would if you threw a gigantic dinner party
at home with a lot of singles in attendance, but either way, dating is a
numbers game, so go meet some new guys. (You too, introverts.) You need
to do whatever it takes, even if it means attending a spin class or
joining nature walks from Meetup.com. On that topic…
如果你想嫁給馬岱立夫小伙，迷人的王子不會(huì)主動(dòng)出現(xiàn)在你的門前。或許他會(huì)出現(xiàn)如果你布置了一桌豐盛的晚宴在有許多單身人士的家，但還有一種方式，約會(huì)是一個(gè)
查數(shù)的游戲，因此去見一些新的家伙。(你們，性格內(nèi)向的人)無論花費(fèi)什么，你們都要去做，即使是一次短途旅行或在大自然中的散步。話題是...
2. “I will try unconventional means of dating”
“我會(huì)嘗試不正規(guī)的約會(huì)方式”
We’re talking online dating, speed-dating, Tinder, or straight-up hiring a
professional matchmaker. Look, there’s no shame in meeting someone
through an algorithm. In the grand scheme of things, how you met
constitutes about 1 per cent of an entire relationship. Who cares
whether you met your dream guy through a dating coach, rather than on a
cross-country tour through Europe? Happily ever after isn’t defined by
how a romance begins, but how it ends.
我們?cè)谡務(wù)撛诰�約會(huì)，速度約會(huì)，引火物，或直接雇傭一個(gè)專業(yè)的符合的人。看通過算計(jì)碰見某人沒什么羞恥的。事情在很大程度上，你們?cè)鯓佑鲆娊M成了1%的整個(gè)
的關(guān)系。誰會(huì)關(guān)心是否你遇見你夢(mèng)想的家伙通過一次約會(huì)訓(xùn)練而不是跨越國家的通往歐洲的旅行?幸福不會(huì)被浪漫怎樣開始定義，而是以怎樣結(jié)束。
3. “I will let my friends intervene for me”
“我會(huì)讓我的朋友干涉我”
Ifyou’re still not convinced, then seek help from your most immediate
resource: your friends. It’s not easy to admit you need help when you’re
so proud of being independent. But these people not only know what you
want, but they know your history and who will be good for you. They’ve
all got brothers, cousins, colleagues, and old friends who are in the
same boat. So let down your defences and accept the possibility that
they’re not just being meddlesome and “kpo”, they actually do want to
see you happy.
如果你仍不自信，然后從最直接的資源尋求幫助：你的朋友們。承認(rèn)你需要幫助不太容易當(dāng)你驕傲于獨(dú)立的時(shí)候。但是這些人不僅知道你想要什么，而且知道你的歷
史，誰會(huì)適合你。他們都有處于同樣境地的兄弟，侄子，同事，和老朋友。因此放下你的防備，接受他們不是愛管閑事的人的可能性，他們實(shí)際上是想讓你高興。
4. “I will be open”
“我會(huì)變得開放”
One of the easiest ways to stay single is to enforce shallow dealbreakers.
Obviously, you should uphold some standards – like, don’t date a drug
dealer – but ladies, would you be open to dating someone who is three
years younger than you? How about someone whose idea of classical music
is a Kenny G cover band? Or how about someone whose sense of style is
stuck in the ‘90s? None of these traits are attractive, but they’re all
superficial. If he’s a good person – loyal, happy, unselfish, willing to
change – then know that he’s a diamond amidst a host of “cool” guys
with mediocre hearts. It’s a lot easier for someone to change his
wardrobe than it is for him to change his character.
最簡(jiǎn)單的保持單身的方式之一是保持淺顯的規(guī)則。很明顯，你應(yīng)該擁有一些標(biāo)準(zhǔn)-例如，不和吸毒者約會(huì)-但女士，你和小你三歲的人約會(huì)持開放態(tài)度么?如果有人認(rèn)
為古典音樂即是Kenny G
cover樂隊(duì)會(huì)怎么樣?或者有人的擇偶標(biāo)準(zhǔn)僅僅是90后?這些特點(diǎn)都不吸引人，但他們都是表面意義的。如果他是一個(gè)好人——忠誠，幸福，無私，想要改變
-然后知道他是冷家伙中擁有一顆平常心的鉆石。對(duì)于某人來說改變性格比改變衣櫥更簡(jiǎn)單。
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